New Baby’s Bris

Here are some pics from the new baby’s bris! Now that he’s had his bris, he has his “real” name and his Hebrew name now. Here on DFK I’m going to do the same thing as I did with Shug and just call him by his nickname. It’s…”Shugie”. I know!! But we just started calling him that right after we found out I was pregnant and it just stuck. Plus, it worked whether we were having a girl or a boy. So here, he’ll be Shugie.

Anyway, he did really great at the bris. We had it right after morning minyan at Temple. The great thing about doing it at Temple rather than at home is that you never know exactly how many people (20 or 40 or more?) are going to attend (you don’t send invitations out for a bris), you have it catered so you don’t have to worry about food, and the other thing is, after the bris is over and everyone has eaten, you can just leave and go back to the peace and quiet of home!

Here we are:

Shugie's Bris

We had a Jewish-Southern breakfast. Pimento cheese triangles on rye cut without the crust, cheese grits, lox and cream cheese with bagels, a fruit bowl, all kinds of pastries, peanut butter/chocolate buckeyes, praline cheesecake, ((it was all *wonderful* – thank you Fred!!)) and along with orange juice and other regular drinks we had Southern beers: Lazy Magnolia and Dixie, and Jewish beer: He’brew! Hahaha!

We tried to have fun with it! In fact, being the proud Papa, Av handed out cigars…Kinky Friedman Texas Jewboys!! And for the centerpieces on each table, I made cotton boll arrangements tied in blue patterned ribbon, in Mason jars with dried blackeyed peas as the filler.

We’re all at home! Thanks again for all the sweet calls and emails!

When Catfish Isn’t, Or Aren’t Catfish Anymore

—I knew I wouldn’t be able to put any new posts up with the new baby home, so I did a few before the new baby came, using Blogger’s feature to publish posts automatically for a date in the future. ((Like the one earlier this week about the new quilts picture book. Just so you aren’t wondering how I am able to do this with a newborn!))—

The NY Times Magazine Food Issue came out a couple of weeks ago and one of the features was about catfish. Here in the US, the industry is based mostly in Alabama, Mississippi, and Louisiana. In the Black Belt area of Alabama, there are man-made catfish farms all over – mostly they look like big rectangles of water, just one after another.

Well, actually the article wasn’t just about how the industry was doing (which is: not great considering about 1/3rd have quit due to how high feed and fuel costs are right now plus overseas competition – there was even did a separate article about how bad it was in the July 18th NY Times) but also how soon U.S. farm-raised, Grade-A catfish won’t be called catfish anymore.

It will be called “Delacata” – a name which the president of the Catfish Institute said was market-tested.

I…don’t know…”Delacata“? Really?

The whole reason behind this new name for catfish here in the US is, it seems, to further differentiate what is grown here from catfish overseas (Pangasius/Tra/Basa). A few years back, Congress even passed a measure so that these Asian fish can’t be called “catfish” here. There’s more about that here from Harvard. But I guess that wasn’t enough – I mean, because of labeling laws it’s pretty clear at the grocery store what you’re buying, but if you go to a restaurant and order catfish, how do you know for certain that what they’re going to bring out is from the Southern US and not Vietnam or China?

Even more, the Catfish Institute has even uploaded a couple of videos on YouTube about how nasty they say overseas catfish is. The NY Times Magazine article states: “They accused (justifiably, it turned out) Vietnamese growers of using carcinogenic fungicides and antibiotics banned in the United States to get higher yields from their ponds.”

Um, yuck.

The article ends this way:

But it is the new name Delacata that many hope will end the time of catfish troubles. Delacata is, like Pangasius, a name with no pejorative associations. And now, after eight years of catfish wars, disassociation is obligatory. As Jon Stamell, a marketing consultant who was contracted briefly by the Vietnamese government to rebrand Pangasius, said, “All of this fighting and disagreeing over a product puts out a negative message to the consumer, and this has a way of doubling back on you.” When I asked Stamell what he thought of the name Delacata, he paused. “Hmm,” he said, “sounds like a car.”

American catfish advocates, meanwhile, are driving forward. “I hear Delacata’s really taking off,” the celebrity chef Cat Cora told me recently, not long after renewing her endorsement contract with the Catfish Institute. “I’d like to see it as a secret ingredient on ‘Iron Chef.’ ”

Home and Happy!

Wow I am sooooo….just….overwhelmed and overjoyed by all the sweet calls and emails we’ve gotten since the new baby has gotten here! Later I’ll respond – just as soon as I can figure out how to get both boys to nap at the same time!

The new little one is doing so well. Just happy as a little clam! And last night he slept for a little over four hours at a time (whereas it has only been about half that). He must know it’s my birthday today!

Shug is just in love with him. Every time he sees us in the nursery rocking chair, he wants to come in, adjust the lighting, turn on the ceiling fan, and turn on the crib mobile. He is just so tickled to have a brother!

Stitchin’ And Pullin’: A Gee’s Bend Quilt

—I knew I wouldn’t be able to put any new posts up with the new baby home, so I did a few before the new baby came, using Blogger’s feature to publish posts automatically for a date in the future. ((Just so you aren’t wondering how I am able to do this with a newborn!))—

Today is the release date of Stitchin’ and Pullin’: A Gee’s Bend Quilt by Patricia C. McKissack and illustrated by Cozbi A. Cabrera.

In an interview on the Random House website, the author says:

It is said the Impressionists artists gathered in Provence in southern France because of the vibrant colors. I can imagine that if the Impressionist had visited Gee’s Bend, they would have chosen it as an artist’s haven as well. The sky seems bluer, the foliage seems greener, the Alabama River seems muddier, the sun brighter . . . and the mosquitoes bite harder! It is just a place where everything is alive, including the people–they laugh like no other people, they throw back their heads and sing praise songs. Life has not always been kind to these women, but they are warm and friendly and inclusive.

When I was in Gee’s Bend, I met so many people, and I knew it would be difficult to write a book that included all their stories. So, I decided to create a character that represented the reader, a young person, learning a craft and thus earning her place among the community of women. In this way, I could honor all the women, their genius and their craftsmanship. Each one of the vignettes is like a patch. Cozbi, the illustrator, visually put them together to form a quilt.

Random House sent me an advance copy and I have to say (I would tell if this wasn’t right) that it is a beautiful book, both in story and visually. The introduction is written by Matt Arnett (Tinwood founder) who re-discovered the quilters and got the world to take notice:

Originally, quilting was the evening activity or chore of the women, which, in addition to creating covers for warmth, also gave them a platform for storytelling, communicating, and singing the songs their mothers sang. Quilting reinforced the ties between generations – from mother to daughter and beyond. Children sat beneath the quilt helping their mothers. They learned basic skills by taking the thread out of old quilts so they could be recycled for new quilts. As girls got older, they were invited to join their elders at the quilting table, where they pieced simple quilts.

Small excerpts from the book – it is written in the voice of “Baby Girl” who waits her turn to grow up and find her place at the quilting frame:

I listened and learned
the recipes for eleven kinds of jelly,
what to do for teething toddlers,
how to get rid of mold
and the words to a hundred
hymns and gospel songs.
All the while
waiting for my turn.


Mama told me
“Cloth has a memory.”

I hope
the black corduroy remembers that it was once the pants…
my uncle wore to go vote for the first time.
all clean and new.

I hope
the pink and green flowered tablecloth remembers
the peach cobbler
I spilled on it at the Fourth of July picnic…

And as Baby Girl does grow, get her chance, and makes her own quilt, she says she has “hundreds of ideas in my head. Quilts that are about me, the place where I live and the people who have been here for generations.”

Beautiful-beautiful-beautiful.

New Baby!!

There’s a new little one at our house!

Shugie

He is 20″ long and weighs 8lbs, 5oz.!

We are all crazy-in-love with him and Shug thinks he is hilarious!

Bama Gets Paul R. Jones Collection, And Sydney Lewis Plus Warhol And A Roll Of Quarters

The AP and the Tuscaloosa News reported last week that the University of Alabama was chosen as the recipient of the $4.8 million Paul R. Jones art collection. And it isn’t just any collection – it’s one of the largest collections of black art in America – over 1700 pieces.

Mr. Jones grew up in Bessemer and even though he lives in Atlanta now, he decided that Alabama was home and where his collection should be.

The AP article reads in part:

“This is my way of coming back home in wanting to give a gift to the state of my birth,” he said. “This is a gift to Alabama and Alabamians.”

Jones, 80, grew up in the mining town of Tennessee Coal, Iron and Railroad Co. and went to Alabama State University, where he played football. He finished his college education at Howard University in Washington, D.C., and was then denied admission into UA’s School of Law in 1949 after it was discovered he was black.

He then embarked on a 15-year career with the federal government. He worked with the departments of Justice and Housing and Urban Development before becoming deputy director of the Peace Corps based in Thailand.

Included are photographs and paintings of all sizes, materials and form. The only rule for Jones was that the pieces be created by black Americans, and often the works come from young or struggling artists…

I found an article from the NAACP Crisis magazine where he was quoted – and this is my favorite:

“I could have sold this collection and got me a maid, a butler, a nurse, a cook and a chauffeur and traveled the world twice a year,” Jones says. “But I’ve led a good life and had the pleasure of living with art and using it as an instrument for change.”

Beautiful.

This story about Paul R. Jones reminded me of a monument that Av and I saw when we were at the Jewish cemetery in Richmond, Virginia. It had this sculpture on it:

Richmond Cemetery

Richmond Cemetery

Well I knew when I got back home that I had to look up and see who Sydney Lewis was – how many people have a sculpture like that for their monument? It turns out that he founded a company called ‘Best Products’ in 1958 and although it is out of business now, at one time it had 200 showrooms in 27 states with sales of $2 billion. Now in the AP article about Paul R. Jones they made a point out of saying that Mr. Jones was a great investor in art but wasn’t what people would consider terribly wealthy. But what I thought was interesting about both men – although I guess one was incredibly well-off and the other more modest was that they made it a point to help artists who hadn’t yet “made it”.

A portion of the NY Times article about Mr. Lewis and his wife reads:

But the couple found their true calling in the early 1960’s, when Mr. Lewis’s doctor told him that he was working too hard and needed a diversion. Acting on a lifelong common interest in the arts, the Lewises turned to collecting contemporary art, concentrating at first on Pop Art and Photo Realism.

 

Over the next 20 years they amassed an enormous collection and became close friends with many artists. They frequently acquired art through trades of Best Products goods, enabling many struggling artists to furnish their lofts with appliances and televisions and to live in relative comfort, sometimes before they were selling much work.

Well, the Lewises went on to donate more than 1500 pieces of art to the Virginia Museum of Fine Arts and donated money for the museum’s West Wing, plus the NY Times article read that:

Mr. Lewis was also a board member of the Whitney Museum of American Art in New York and the Hirshhorn Museum and Sculpture Garden in Washington. He served on the trustees’ committee for architecture and design at the Museum of Modern Art in New York, where he and his wife established a fund that enabled the Modern to acquire several architectural models, including that of Frank Lloyd Wright’s Fallingwater. The Lewises’ philanthropies included $1.5 million to help establish Eastern Virginia Medical School; $2 million for a business school at Virginia Union University, where Mr. Lewis was a trustee, and $9 million to Washington and Lee for a law school building and the development of a legal studies center.

Now my favorite story about the Lewises – from when they were just starting their art collection – is from the Richmond paper. Can you just imagine this:

In the mid-’60s, Richmonder Sydney Lewis was reading the free New York weekly The Village Voice. He saw an ad that basically said, “I will trade my art for anything.” He called the number.

Pop artist icon Andy Warhol answered the phone. He told Sydney and his wife, Frances, to meet him at a photo booth and to “bring lots of quarters.”

They did.

And the rest is art history. Seriously.

When the Lewises met Warhol at the photo booth, they brought their roll of quarters. Frances hopped in the booth, smiled for the camera and presto!, Warhol created “Sydney’s Harem”. Classic Warhol, “Sydney’s Harem” is created from 12 photos of Frances and features Warhol’s fascination with repetition and seemingly identical images.

It’s fitting that “Sydney’s Harem” is the first painting in the exhibition — it’s also the first work of art that sparked the Lewises’ lifelong fascination with collecting contemporary art.

“They enjoyed that experience [with Warhol] so much that they decided to collect more art … and to become friends with the artists they collected,” John Ravenal, curator of the exhibition, says.

Can you believe?!

Love it.

Simchat Torah, Or Other Holiday Banner

Lowe’s has a little magazine called “Creative Ideas” that they mail out a few times each year – it can be subscribed to here. Inside one of the latest issues was this project for wall art:

Simchat Torah Banner

I thought that with the wooden pieces at the top and bottom that it looked like the rollers, or handles, on a Torah scroll (the Torah is the first five books of the Bible – Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, Deuteronomy – you can see one here), and I thought it would be a great craft for Simchat Torah (“sim-kaht tore-uh”). That’s the holiday that celebrates the end of the annual reading cycle. For instance, since the congregation begins at Genesis and ends at Deuteronomy each year, when you get to the end and start over, you celebrate! This is what Simchat Torah is all about…plus dancing, drinking, celebrating…

Anyway, Simchat Torah is a huge holiday for children. I guess the most common craft is to make flags for them to hold and wave. I try to decorate our home for just about every big holiday so this year Leslie and I got together and rather than make flags, we made a banner like the one in the Lowe’s magazine.

—And the thing about this craft, like just about all the others I’ve made for Jewish holidays, translate so well to other traditions…like I could totally see someone doing dowels in pastel colors and decoupaging on a bunch of vintage bunny images for a ‘Happy Easter’ banner…or doing the same thing with deeper colors and Autumn leaves for a Fall banner…or, well, you know. There are a zillion possibilities with this.—

Supplies:
* Wooden curtain rod, sawed in half (so you can use a short one for hanging this on the front door or a longer rod for hanging elsewhere in your home on the wall)
* Four curtain finials
* Wood stain, plus varnish if you like
* Foam brush for applying wood stain plus protective gloves
* Acrylic paint plus brushes
* Stencil letters and stencil brush if you want to do lettering that way
* Either butcher paper, drop cloth, or something else strong to paint on
* Glue gun, glue to attach the painted piece to the rods
* Yarn, string, or jute to tie to the ends of the top rod for hanging

Av and I went to the home improvement shop and bought one curtain rod (when sawed in half, it made the two we needed plus it was the right width for hanging on the front door) plus four finials. He sawed the curtain rod, screwed on the finials, and stained everything.

Simchat Torah Banner

Leslie and I got out a bunch of acrylic paints and brushes and decided to use butcher paper to paint on. Cut the butcher paper longer than you expect you want the banner to hang because you will want to wrap the top and bottom of the paper around the dowels a couple of times so it’s strong:

Simchat Torah Banner

Leslie painted the top half and I painted the bottom part. We just tried to go with something abstract, and the nice thing about it is that if you look at it like this, it looks like the sky and the earth and the opposite way it looks like the earth and the sea. In an abstract way, I mean…:

Simchat Torah Banner

Simchat Torah Banner

Simchat Torah Banner

I used my stencils and some gold paint to spell out “Simchat Torah”:

Simchat Torah Banner

After everything dried, the paper was turned over, centered on the dowels, and hot glued around them a couple of times:

Simchat Torah Banner

Simchat Torah Banner

I’m planning on using some strong yarn and hanging the banner that way (like in the magazine pic) but just for this pic I cheated and used the hook on my wreath hanger!

Simchat Torah Decoration

Frank Calloway’s Show At AVAM

On October 4th, the American Visionary Art Museum in Baltimore opened their 50-artist exhibit, “The Marriage of Art, Science, & Philosophy” which includes 18 scrolls of the drawings of Tuscaloosa’s Frank Calloway. He lives at the Bryce campus and is 112 years old.

His drawings are done on butcher paper with crayon, pen, and magic marker.

This is from the AP story:

His caretakers have suspended sales of his artwork until after the show after finding out that some of his drawings could sell for thousands of dollars.

Calloway views art as his job and sits at a table by a window drawing for seven to nine hours a day, usually wearing blue denim overalls and a crisp dress shirt, said Nedra Moncrief-Craig, director of Alice M. Kidd Nursing Facility, a state home where Calloway lives.

“He draws all day long except for the time that he spends in activity and eating his meals,” Moncrief-Craig said. “That’s what he loves to do.”

Exhibition Curator Rebecca Hoffberger said of Frank Calloway:

Frank is an astronaut who has navigated 112 trips around our Sun, survived untold hardships, injustices, and loss, and yet never fails to radiate kindness to all and a personal and constant engagement with wonder. His instinctive love of numbers, the patterns they make, and the way his meandering calculations balance to form the great masses of numbers that fill his large notebooks make this phenomenon of nature a real star in our national museum’s communal exploration of what Art, Science & Philosophy mean to each of us.

There are 10 pics from the exhibit here on Flickr

Scrapbook Paper Dragonflies

I was thinking of other crafts to make for the sukkah, and came up with the idea to use a clothespin and scrapbook paper to make dragonflies. I think these turned out really great, and besides a sukkah craft, these would be great in the summertime hanging on the porch like a mobile.

Supplies:
clothespins
folk art acrylic paint for clothespins, brush
scrapbook paper – if there’s a chance these might get wet, laminate the paper
glue – Elmer’s or Sobo
scissors
clear line for hanging
optional: glitter, seed beads for embellishing the dragonfly clothespin

Directions:
Paint one clothespin for every dragonfly. If you like, you can glitter or glue tiny seed beads on too — or just leave it natural:
Scrapbook Paper Dragonflies

I used two different scrapbook paper designs for each butterfly:

Scrapbook Paper Dragonflies

Folded the paper in half lengthwise and cut them together (so both sides cut exactly the same) – here is one sheet by itself – since each dragonfly has two sets of wings, I made one wing set shorter and one longer:

Scrapbook Paper Dragonflies

Take the two short sets of wings and glue them back to back – so there is contrast if the dragonfly is spinning and you can see the top and bottom. Do the same for the long set of wings:

Scrapbook Paper Dragonflies

Put a dab of glue on these two spots inside the clothespin:

Scrapbook Paper Dragonflies

Center the wings inside the clothespin and let dry:

Scrapbook Paper Dragonflies

Use clear string to tie them for hanging:

Scrapbook Paper Dragonflies

Scrapbook Paper Dragonflies

Halloween Banner

The Halloween paper banner is done!

I don’t know why I’m so into paper banners / garlands this year – maybe it’s because there’s so much beautiful scrapbook paper out there…

Materials:
Paper in four different patterns:
one for big main triangles (eight sheets if you do it the way I did)
one for inside main triangle (eight sheets ” ” ” ” ” ” ” “)
one for circles behind Halloween letters
one for printing Halloween letters on
Scissors
Mod Podge, black foam rubber brush
Some kind of paper punch for running ribbon through
Ribbon
Stapler
Glue – Elmer’s or Sobo is fine
Stencil and paint or download my letters with your printer
Optional: paper punches for letters and letter backgrounds

Directions:
Cut the paper you’re using for the eight main triangles into a triangle shape:

Halloween Banner

I found this sort-of ornate looking paper to cut my secondary triangles out of, and cut that paper into eight smaller triangles to fit onto the large triangle. I was just going for a Halloween look:

Halloween Banner

Used Mod-Podge to get that on:

Halloween Banner

This is a new paper punch that I picked up to make slits into paper so it’s easy to run the ribbon through – this one came from Hobby Lobby:

Halloween Banner

Close to each edge, make the slits with the paper punch (of course, you can just do this with a pair of scissors too):

Halloween Banner

Run the ribbon through – I like to use much, much more ribbon that I know I’ll need to use then cut off the excess. I ran the ribbon through all eight triangles:

Halloween Banner

Now it’s time to make letters! Just use a font/size that will be perfect for your punch size. In this case, I was using a 2-5/16″ round punch:

Halloween Banner

With a slightly bigger punch, I punched out nine scalloped circles to go behind the Halloween letters. The main reason I did this, though, was because I needed a secure way to get my “Halloween” letters onto the garland:

Halloween Banner

…then before and after each triangle, I stapled the scalloped circles onto the garland:

Halloween Banner

…then I used regular Sobo glue (Elmer’s is perfect too) and glued each letter of Halloween onto those scalloped circles. This covers up the staple. You don’t need to use much glue at all, and it dries super-quick so you can just go from one letter to the next without having to hold them:

Halloween Banner

And here it is, all done!

Halloween Banner